Telehealth & In person Psychotherapy Practice
by and for the Queer community in North Carolina.
Anxiety, Relationships, Sexual & Gender minorities, religious trauma, consensual Non-monogamy, polyamorous relationships, coming out.
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LGBTQIA+ People
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Of the U.S. population
identifies as lesbian, gay, or bisexual
by and for the Queer community in North Carolina.
Anxiety, Relationships, Sexual & Gender minorities, religious trauma, consensual Non-monogamy, polyamorous relationships, coming out.
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You’ve been struggling with the stress and anxiety of juggling your poly relationships.
You’ve tried the therapist that has a pride flag on their website and loudly exclaims, “I’m an Ally!”.
You get into therapy and start talking about your Trans girlfriend and your husband at home and they get this pained look on their face. They ask if you’ve been to church lately. Good thing you didn’t share your KINKS – they might have thrown holy water on you! What the fuck?
You’re tired of these supposed allies that exist only in a world that that was not built for you. A world that assumes you’re less than. A world that says you are broken. Bullshit!
To borrow a term from my Burner friends in Colorado, we practice RADICAL ACCEPTANCE here at QueerWave. And this is the only time I’m ever going to use this word, but WE are the NORMAL ones. I don’t subscribe to the heteronormative model and neither should you. Be heard. Be seen. Be understood.
Click the get started now button to set up a free 15-minute phone conversation to learn more about radical acceptance and if we are a good fit.
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Hi! I’m Jeff LiCalzi
Although I’ve been an actual therapist for over ten years now I sometimes wish I had gone to school for counseling when I was in my twenties. But if I had done that I’d have missed out on the rich life experience and occupations I’ve had over the years, all of which have made me a better therapist.
PARROT ASSISTED THERAPY
Occasionally and when appropriate, Jeff brings his two parrots to sessions. Jeff has done informal animal assisted therapy for 15 years. He is an experienced parrot enthusiast and trains others in caring for their birds. Feel free to ask him about his birds.
SPECIALTIES
I specialize and provide a unique perspective on LGBTQI+ related concerns. I am sex positive and always maintain a non-judgmental and supportive environment.
- LGBTQI+
- Trans & Queer Theory
- Sexuality
- Anxiety
- Coming out
- Gender
- POLY
- KINK/FETISH
- Sex-work
- BDSM
- Grief, loss & Trauma
- Psychosocial Oncology
- Internalized Homophobia
- White supremacy and how it affects marginalized groups
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